Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, July 1st, 2026
Pete, that's huge. I'll bet you felt a huge wave of relief that she did that.
My wife did the same, and like I said, I haven't even looked in a long time. I don't want to be a marriage warden either, but it sure was a great way for her to show transparency and made me feel a lot safer.
Your post just brightened up my morning a little bit. I can imagine what that did for you.
Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?
petecarparts (original poster member #87404) posted at 7:12 PM on Wednesday, July 1st, 2026
It certainly was.
And I'm doing my best not to think that she's taken anything "underground" as was suggested earlier this thread. I hope she hasn't dug in on keeping the affair going.
But time will tell and we'll see what happens moving forward.
For now I'm going to try and heal a bit, keep doing therapy and hope she keeps going too. I know she's not terribly fond of her current therapist, and I've mentioned that she can find another caregiver whenever, but I'm glad she's trying.
