hyperactivepineapple ( new member #86185) posted at 12:33 PM on Thursday, October 23rd, 2025
Hi WS
My OH cheated when our son was 4 weeks old, and whilst my dad was dying and went and stopped in a hotel with AP after a night out on the night of the day he died. He never once texted me to see if I was ok, and showed zero remorse on DD - 2 days before my dad's funeral. He left me and chased after her - telling her he wanted to marry her, he had been in love with her for years etc. He came back after he realised AP had finished with him completely.
I guess I'm trying to figure out this mentality, he's now very apologetic and is putting 100% into fixing things 6 months on whilst I'm left dealing with the trauma of it all.
Did any love or remorse disappear for your BS when you were focussed on AP?
